Community speaks out about cultural misunderstandings with parent's arrest
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Updated: 6:47 PM Nov 4, 2009
Community speaks out about cultural misunderstandings with parent's arrest
On Monday, parents Mai Vang Xiong and Song Xiong were arrested by Eau Claire police for false imprisonment of their 21-year-old developmentally disabled son, whom they had chained by the ankles in their home. Now, the Hmong community reacts.
Posted: 5:52 PM Nov 4, 2009
Reporter: Kelly Schlicht
Email Address: kelly.schlicht@weau.com
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On Monday, parents Mai Vang Xiong and Song Xiong were arrested by Eau Claire police for false imprisonment of their 21-year-old developmentally disabled son, whom they had chained by the ankles in their home. Now, the Hmong community reacts.

One of Mai Vang and Song Xiong's sons says his parents weren't abusing his brother Cheng, when they put him in chains at home. He says they were doing what they felt was best.

Tuesday, Hmong leaders say some cultural barriers may have led to the Xiongs not getting modern medical help for Cheng, who is developmentally disabled.

"To me it's not a situation where abuse happened. It's more a lack of resources and they need help providing care for their son," says Evan Xiong, director of the Hmong Assistance Association.

Evan Xiong, no relation to the family, says in Hmong culture, most psychological or behavioral disorders are described as "spiritual" issues.

"Most of the time in Hmong culture it's about the spirit losing its way," says Evan Xiong. “There may be some cultural beliefs here that need to be understood to find the best solution for Cheng, and for his family, and really for the whole community."

Evan Xiong says he hopes this incident does not reflect badly on the Hmong culture and Hmong people, especially the Xiong family.

"It was a poor decision on how to care for Cheng but they need help more right now than punishment,” says Evan Xiong. “It wasn't the best strategy for finding a way to help Cheng, but I can say with confidence I am sure Cheng's parents really love him."

The director of the Hmong Assistance Association says it's common for Hmong families to be very private about medical and psychological issues people may be facing. He says those situations often bring shame in the community to families.

Psychologist Dr. Harlan Heinz told WEAU 13 News over the phone today that it's a "tough situation" to deal with, when cultural beliefs intersect with psychological health issues. He says the public should not be so quick to judge the Xiong family, and the situation needs to be fully evaluated.

The investigation continues with the Chippewa County District Attorney's Office. The Xiongs have not been charged.


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